Sunday, December 1, 2013

How To Find Love (In A Hopeless Place)

Where can I find love? What is love? And the eternal and universal question: How do I find it?!

You can find love anywhere. It will find you when you least expect it, when you stop looking for it. Kind of ironic, right? Well, stop looking for it. Stop pining (is that how you spell it?) after love. Love doesn't like clingy people. Be happy now. I want to live someone who's happy, wouldn't you? Enjoy being single. Work on being you.

It sounds hard, doesn't it? Try it, a little at a time. I'm trying to be the kind of person I'd want to marry, and am trying to enjoy the single life. It's hard, seeing friends supposedly in love (they're in high school, they're silly, they can find love later too). But I know that when I find it, when you find it, out will be the most amazing thing. You'll be able to find love many times, and there's always a chance to be happy.

Now, I hope the boys do the same. We all deserve happiness, single or not. You can have love right now. Give it to everyone, show it. You have family, friends, and strangers who need some love. Most of all, love yourself. If you can't, how can you expect anyone else to? Some wait for someone to rescue you. Rescue yourself and then find someone to share in the joy. I wish you an amazing holiday season.  :)